Season 2 ∨
Episodes
A Segment From a Monthly Q&A
In the past each month we hosted a Q&A where we answer questions from people. This episode is a small piece of that. Patreon is not an option any further.
We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we...
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Why Does It Feel Right To Watch Their Every Move But It Is Not Helpful?
When the addicted has betrayed so many times, lied over and over how can the one who was hurt NOT watch every move with an all seeing eye? That is the first instinct much of the time but why is it not helpful? What...
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From Hopeless to Hope
We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships.
In this episode we discusses a program we have chosen to not...
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Why Does It Hurt When the Addict Says I'm Beautiful?
When words are cheap how can an addict expect the betrayed to embrace a kind and sweet word?
How can something be true when there is nothing by way of action to support such a statement? Listen as Coby gives...
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What if the Betrayal Trauma Experts Have it Wrong?
Betrayal trauma is a real thing. It affects so many and is devastating. But what if the experts treating this have it wrong and cannot get their patients through this trauma? What if they don't know how to move them...
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Why I Can't Stop White Knuckling?
Not acting out is a thing and often times is the immediate goal. However, when we don't feel better and our partners seem to feel the energy that goes with the white knuckling, things can get tough. So why can't I...
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Why Can't I Build Trust?
Coby could not figure out how to build trust as he did not know how to speak the truth even in small things. The effect on Ashlynn was significant to see him hide or lie about the little things in life....
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I'm Doing All the Right Things But Something Is Missing
There is so much that goes into recovery. Doing can keep everyone busy till the wee hours of the night but what happens when we feel like something is missing? Here are some things to consider when you get to that...
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You Are Not Loving Me Right
This delicate episode will describe how Ashlynn and Coby were raised when it comes to demonstrations of love and those behavioral norms impact their relationship. Brannon leads them through the path of bridging the...
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Can Recovery Be a Drag?
Ashlynn and Coby are guided by Brannon on how recovery can be a drag and what that looks like. It can be a hardship to put so much time, energy and resources into such a devastating thing when you don't feel better....
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Having Eyes to See Success
When things went wrong for Ashlynn and Coby, they developed eyes to see all the things that were bad, hard or fell short of expectations. This episode describes what that looked like and how Coby developed eyes to...
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How do I set Boundaries in my Relationship vs Ultimatums?
Boundaries are a critical piece of any relationship, especially a committed relationship. Today, the BAE crew discusses what healthy boundaries in marriage and relationships should look like. And what boundaries are...
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