#124: Can It Be Betrayal Trauma Even If It's Not Sex Addiction?
Caller Chelsea: "My husband has used some porn as a form of escapism, but never really an addiction. His real addiction has been alcohol. He is currently 3 months sober, but it seems like his goal in this is to show me that the alcohol was never really the problem in our marriage, but that the real problem was/is me. He makes zero effort to move toward the relationship, giving me the silent treatment. When I force him to talk, or at minimum listen to what I have to say, he refutes most everything I say that I am feeling. I have begged him to go to couples counseling, but he refuses, saying that I don’t really want to resolve anything, I just want a place to be able to level him with anger into compliance with the approval of an “expert”. He won’t make any agreements regarding how we share our time, money, and space. I have restarted individual counseling, and am trying to figure out boundaries, but it is so confusing when we share so much in life."
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